It may also comply with the expectations of your family and society. You believe that it will be your first as well as your only love. Even if sometimes it does not seem exactly right, you censure personal truths to make it work. You do so, as you think that compromising your character is a part of what love is meant to be.
During this sort of love, what other people think of you is more important than your feelings.
This kind of love just looks right.
Your second love is meant to be the tough love. Namely, it’ll teach you lessons about who you are as well as what you are looking for in love. This kind of love is full of manipulations, lies and pain.
You believe that you are making a better choice than your first love. Although it may not be the right person, choice is a necessary evil in case you’re about to find out what you want from love. It may become a vicious circle that you may repeat as you think that the ending will be different from before. But, each time is actually worse than the previous.
Unfortunately, it may get frustrating, nasty, and unhealthy. It may include drama, and even emotional or physical abuse. It is like a junkie attempting to get a fix: it is an emotional rollercoaster of devastating lost and extreme highs. You stick through the pain in anticipation of the high.
During this type of love, you try to make things work.
You wish this type of love was right.
Your third love is meant to catch you off-guard. It is the one you do not see coming, since it looks all wrong as well as appears to be opposed to your ideals of what love should be. It comes by so easily, that sometimes it does not seem real. It is the form of connection that cannot be explained.
When you come across the right person, there are not any expectations of what should take place or how your partner should act. Also, there is no pressure to be somebody you are not.
Your partner does accept you for who you are. This does shake you to your core.
Perhaps it isn’t what you thought your love would look like, and it may be against all the rules you set up to protect yourself. However, it can still manage to bring down your preconceived ideas.